Confident You

I’m okay with saying no. If I don’t want to do something or can’t, I’ll say no without a second thought. It’s my right, I think, to do what I want with my time. It seems though, a lot of people don’t feel this way. I get that, it took me some time to come [...]

Howdy friends! It has been a while since I checked in on how you are all going out there. Did you find yourself running full steam ahead confidence wise or did the challenge kick your butt a bit? Either is ok. Promise. For me, I found that December brought with it a crisis of confidence, [...]

Today is a bit like when you buy shoes, you’ve tried them on in store, everything seems lovely but you never really, REALLY, know how they are going to go until you wear them out. Is the fit comfortable, do they stay on your feet, is the sole well balanced. You know all that stuff. [...]

If there is one thing we, as bloggers, have learnt over the past year it is that given the chance we can make a huge difference. Sometimes the simple fact is that we look at our lives and ourselves as too small. Take a look around. There are some big problems out there and YOU [...]

I flew into Melbourne for the first time with no plan on what the heck I was doing. I had the name of my accommodation tucked somewhere in my handbag and a vague idea that there was a shuttle or something. I was under-prepared, freaking out and fussing about in the airport I ran into Sheri [...]

Leading on from having a sense of humour, today’s challenge is to play a little game. You see, most things that suck your confidence like fear of embarrassment or being ousted as a total loser have this heavy, horrible feeling about them. You might have heard the stats that people are more afraid of public [...]

Sometimes the easiest way to have confidence is to have a sense of humour about stuff. All stuff. I was once directing a show, a small musical production in my local town. The half time break came and I decided to sneak down the stage side stairs instead of walking all the way around the [...]

We’ve said a lot about faking it. A lot about walk this way, hold your face that way, do this and do that. But maybe for you there is something there that is holding you back. Something that tells you no matter what that you aren’t good enough, that you’re being ridiculous even reading these [...]

So here we are, over half way. And maybe you’re feeling it, maybe you aren’t. But at this stage it becomes important to FAKE IT. We are going to trick your brain into thinking YOU are the most confident person I the wooooooorld! And truth be told, I would say that most of the confident [...]